Zack, Cap, and Life

Look at these two.  Can you believe the cuteness?  I like posting happy picture likes these on Instagram and Facebook.

A cute young man and his beloved pup, sitting together so nicely on a long car ride.  The pup looks adoringly at the young man. I’ve been instructed to call him this from now on. The young man telling his pup all about his new game….

But here is what the picture leaves out…This week was a tough week for both Zack and Cap.  Let’s begin with Zack.  Christmas vacation officially ended January 2 around here.  After almost two months without a prolapse, I received a call from school that Zack was prolapsing, there was blood and he had belly pain.  Belly pain is not surprising.  Anytime one’s intestines burst forth from one’s body there is bound to be pain.

While we do not know why Zack began prolapsing again, it is not really surprising.  The almost two month break is the real surprise.  Interestingly, this time his prolapse followed a day where Zack had over five hours of no output.  A new hypothesis of mine is that Zack’s belly issues are cyclical in nature.  I realize that I am not a doctor, or a nurse, or medically trained in any way at all.  Since everyone else is stumped, I figure that I have just as much of a chance at being right as they do, right?

For the rest of the week, Zack had periods of belly pain.  Over the course of forty-eight hours, we changed Z’s ostomy wafer and bag NINE times.  NINE!  We have heard of mythical people whose wafers last three to five days and we aspire to become like them.  Sadly, Zack’s have historically lasted for just one day.  On rare occasions they last two days and we celebrate.  Really.  Going through a few wafers a day happens more than we would like, but three wafers a day for three days is crazy even for us.

Over the course of those three days, we experienced some crazy things.  Zack’s bag fell off in Jake’s room on the carpet.  After extensive carpet cleaning this remains:

Try not to be jealous.  To be fair, Jake and Zack were in engaged in an energetic dance party.  We are pretty sure that Zack’s bag was accidentally knocked off in all the excitement.  We have lived in our house for six years now.  It was almost time for new carpet anyway.  Almost.

On Saturday night, Zack’s wafer exploded from too much output.  Exploded is misleading.  He had a significant amount of output.  The output ate through the glue that holds his wafer to his skin.  This has happens from time to time. To protect Z’s bed, we keep a plastic mattress cover under Zack’s mattress pad and sheets.

Until now, this has worked pretty well.  Sadly, we did not realize there was a tiny hole in the plastic.  When Zack’s bag exploded, there was over 600 milliliters of output in his bed.  We have no idea how long Zack slept in that mess before he woke up. Stool from an ileostomy is corrosive and can cause damage to the skin in a short amount of time.  Zack’s belly and back were a mess and painful for a day or so, but looking much better now.

Stool trapped under a plastic sheet on a mattress can cause damage to a mattress in a short amount of time as well.  I could add more details to the horror, but let me end this gross story by saying that Zack will be getting a new bed.  He is turning eleven in a few days and outgrowing his twin anyway…at least that is what I am telling myself to feel better about the bed carnage…do not remind me of the carpet…this is getting expensive!

Now, on to the furry one.  Over the past two weeks, this pup has overdosed on ADHD medicine.  He had his stomach pumped, got three doses of activated charcoal and spent the day in the hospital.  Upon returning home, this cute boy was urinating every ten minutes.  Seriously.  Turns out he had some kind of bacterial infection.  He is now finishing a course of antibiotics and doing a lot better, thankfully.

However, the morning of the bed disaster?  Once we got Zack and his room under control, we took Cap out of his kennel to go outside.  We got down the stairs, reached for the leash and that was all she wrote…his bladder was done.  All over the Turkish rug.  That we actually purchased in Turkey.  The one that you cannot just steam clean.  Good thing everyone loves this pup so much.

These pictures of Zack and Cap and their adorableness got me thinking about life and what we/I share with others.  It is easy to share happy pictures.  But everyone has their stuff, everyone.  Ours is chronic illness and an insanely curious puppy.  I love sharing our happy pictures with you, but I also like being real with people. That is one of the reasons I write this blog.  I guess my real update for the month is that we are doing our best to enjoy life.  Trying to find the humor among the literal poop that happens in our day and working hard to keep Zack stable.  Here’s to 2018.  May it be as kind to us as 2017 and may this be the year someone figures out Zack’s intestines.

Hug your babies!

~ Dawn

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